Hinde Street Sermons

 

‘Letting go’

 

Sermon preached on 2 April 2006 by Simeon Mitchell

Readings: Jeremiah 31:31-34, John 12:20-33

 

 

It’s time to let go.

That was Jesus’ message to the Gentiles who came to see him in today’s Gospel reading. It was God’s message to Jesus as he faced his own painful journey to the cross. And it’s my message to you today.

Let go of selfishness, of pride, of the fear of failure and of death.

Let go of all that stops us taking risks, putting our faith in God and into action.

Jesus says: If you cling to your life, guarding it against all threats, it will slip away from you, but if you let go and follow my way, you’ll never lose it.

It is a command which recurs in similar form in all four Gospels, so we can be confident of its importance. Yet it can be a troubling instruction, an apparent paradox that is all too easy to dismiss. If we are serious about being disciples of Jesus, about our Christian commitment, it is a message we need to hear over and over again.

“Whoever loves his life will lose it, but he who hates himself in this world will be given eternal life.”

What does it mean? That we should do our best to be miserable, because unhappiness is a shortcut to heaven? That would go against everything we know about God being the bringer of life and joy. That we should eagerly anticipate our own demise – and be reckless in the way we care for ourselves? That would go against everything Jesus says about the purpose to which we should put our lives.

But do we need something of the dissatisfaction of the former attitude, and the willingess to take risks of the latter. For Jesus is saying that the meaning of life eludes those who try and live it up. When life revolves around me, I am not really living at all. But when my self-centeredness finally begins to die, finally I begin to live.

Jesus turns to images of nature where death and life coexist on a constant cycle, to make his point. The seed dies in the ground and comes up again with new life, giving a great abundance back to the earth. We watch the trees every autumn as green leaves lose their life-giving power of photosynthesis, turning brown, yellow and red and plunging to colourful death. But what might these natural examples have to do with a human life, when we die not with beautiful leaves or more seeds but in loss of faculties and bodies that waste away before us?

The truth is parts of us are dying all the time. We’ve each lost several million cells since the beginning of this sermon. The healthy human body loses about 100,000 cells per second. Fortunately, just as many new cells are usually produced to replace them. Healthy bodies have this constant cycle of dying cells and rebirth of new ones. It is those cells that don’t die off in the normal cycle that are the problem. These are the cancerous cells which corrode from within, getting in the way of the healthy development of the body.

This is true in the spiritual and emotional life as well as the physical one. “Whoever loves his life will lose it, but those who lose their lives for my sake will save it.” Our failure to let go and let some things die is a primary spiritual disease, for new life can’t come without some death. The failure to forgive leads to death of relationship, while anger and bitterness ravage the spirit like a cancer. Holding on to regrets strangles hope before it can lift us to new life. Trying to control events and other people leads to frustration, excessive stress, and exhaustion. Forgiveness and letting go of control are spiritual exercises in the art of dying so that new life may abound.

So this dying is not something which happens just once at the end of our life. It is something which happens every day. We need to die to our selves, our selfishness and our fears. We need a willingness to let go, surrender control, accept where the journey takes us.

What do we, what do you, need to let go of today, in order to live?

It can be hard to let go. We fear losing face, losing our grip, losing our sense of security. And above all, we fear death. Even Jesus feared it. In the Gospel passage, we encounter John’s version of the Gethsemane moment, when Jesus considers pleading with God to save him from the fate which awaits him. It is a temptation we all face – to turn away from difficult realities and hard choices.

So how do we let go? Like Jesus, we have to trust God. Trust in the promises he makes to us, again and again through history. Trust in the words spoken to the prophet Jeremiah: “I shall be their God, and they shall be my people. All of them, high and low alike, will know me, for I shall forgive their wrongdoing, and their sin I shall call to mind no more.” We can let go, because we are held secure in the hand of God. As the hymn we shall sing later puts it, God’s is a love which “will not let us go”.

And we let go by following Jesus, the way of the cross, the way of service. As Jesus says, “If anyone is to follow me, he must serve me; where I am, there will my servant be. Whoever serves me will be honoured by the Father.” By giving our lives to the service of others, as Jesus did, we move away from that corrosive self-centredness, and put ourselves on a path to true understanding and real discipleship. As John Vincent memorably puts it, if we put our feet where Jesus’ are, then our stomach, our heart and our head will follow – usually in that order!

Or, as it’s phrased in the prayer of St Francis of Assisi, “it is in giving that we receive; it is in dying that we are born to eternal life.” 

This points to the most important reason why we need to let go. Not only because the things that are behind us are not good for us, but because by letting go, we open up before us a world of new possibilities. As TS Eliot says in the Four Quartets, “to make an end is to make a beginning.”

Endings are something I’ve been reflecting on a lot lately, as I prepare to leave London to get married in a couple of months time. Finding the right way to let things go – the friends I’m used to having around me, my home and my neighbourhood, this church and all that it means to me – so I can move on to the excitement of new life in Oxford. Letting go therefore seems an appropriate subject for what will probably be my last sermon at Hinde Street!

In order to move on, we must take the risk of letting go of all that we hold secure. We must give up the seed to the ground in order for it to take root and bear fruit. Jesus had to follow the road to death, before he could draw everyone to himself in glory.

For the journey we are asked to make every day precisely mirrors that which Christ had to make to the cross and beyond. Letting go of our fears and our selfish desires, trusting in God, allowing death to happen so new life can spring forth. In this passage, Christ uses the meaning of death in both senses; his literal death was his death to the self for the good of others. The analogy of the seed, which has to die and be buried before it can germinate and bear a rich harvest, paints this point beautifully. Christ’s death and resurrection became the example and the power for our self-giving.

So to come back to where I began – for, as Eliot says, “what we call the beginning is often the end.”

It is time to let go.

Let go of all that harms you. The past is forgiven, forgotten. Put it behind you. It has died: today is a new beginning.

Let go of all that you fear. Embarassment, exposure, failure, death. Trust in God.

Let go of all that corrupts you. Leave your pride, your selfishness, your desire for possessions or sensations behind. Follow Jesus.

And you will have life.

Amen.